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A hint is a small clue, a tiny trace, or barely noticeable amount of smell, taste, or feeling. In the last week, I’ve noticed a tiny touch of fall in the air. Cooler mornings and a few yellow and orange leaves hint that seasonal change is ahead. After a long, hot summer, I’m ready for […]
Any time you face something unknown, something you’ve never experienced before, you have expectations, whether good or bad. What I expected prior to knee replacement surgery was lots of pain and a slow recovery. In actuality, the pain was much less than I imagined and the recovery much more rapid. Have you had great expectations […]
Many years ago, a man who worked for my father used the word “disremember.” He was a good worker, but needed frequent reminders. When he forgot to do something, he’d say, “I’m sorry I disremembered to do that.” While this terminology brings a chuckle and stretches the bounds of made-up words, it’s actually not a […]
Life is filled with challenges. Whether health situations, caregiving, grief, or unexpected circumstances, difficult life seasons occur. Navigating hard seasons while maintaining forward motion requires determination and skill. Following are a few tips: Recognize Stress I rarely recognize stress in myself because I don’t feel it internally. My clue is elevated blood pressure. Even if […]
While driving on an unfamiliar road, I saw what appeared to be construction traffic in the far right lane. I kept going, thinking the exit lane was beyond the long line of dump trucks. I was mistaken. Suddenly, I saw the exit. Squeezing between bumper-to-bumper traffic was impossible, so I went to the next exit, […]
Recently, I noticed an extensive root system snaking across the bed where one of our largest trees is located. The roots are thick and sturdy and more visible now that the pine straw in the bed has settled. Perhaps drought conditions in the last few years have brought the root system to the surface, but […]
This week, I had surgery, something I have been putting off for too long. Over the years, as I tried to decide to have this surgery, people told me, “You’ll know when it’s time,” and they were right. When you reach the point where pain and limited mobility cause you to feel like an old […]
Last week, I joined my daughter and her family as we said goodbye to a beloved pet. We knew the day was coming. Sadie was 13 and had liver failure. She hung on a long time, doubtless cherishing the love as long as possible. But finally, her decline required the kindness of relieving her suffering. […]
Last week, as I was leaving a restorative care facility after visiting a friend, I encountered a group of employees in the lobby. “Are you a teacher?” one asked. “You have the presence of a teacher.” I answered “no,” and then told her I am a writer. “For real? What have you written? Do you […]
I’m a creature of habit. Most of us are. I eat the same thing for breakfast almost every day. It’s a challenge for me to step outside my comfort zone on certain things, breakfast being one of them, but recently, I ate something different for breakfast. It was delicious! What holds you back from trying […]