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    • 4 Ways to Move Beyond Criticism
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    • 5 Misconceptions about Forgiveness
    • 3 Reasons Expectations Color Reality
    • 5 Life Directives Inspired by Rain
    • 4 Reasons to Count Your Blessings
    • 5 Tips for Navigating Difficult Seasons of Life
    • 3 Reasons to Encourage New Growth
    • 5 Life Lessons from Snow
    • 4 Obstacles to Receiving
    • 6 Keys to Maintaining Joy in the New Year
    • 6 Ways to Experience Peace and Fulfillment in the New Year
    • Life in the Rearview Mirror
    • Cultivating Wisdom
    • Navigating Beyond Damage
    • 4 Ways to Guard Integrity
    • 3 Reasons to Encourage Others
    • 5 Thieves of Contentment
    • Uncovering Deterrents to Beginning
    • 7 Obstacles to Moving Forward
    • 4 Reasons to Pursue Hospitality
    • 5 Ways to Discover Your Gifts and Talents
    • When Looking Back is a Catalyst for Moving Forward
    • 4 Reasons to Finish What You Start
    • Components of Love
    • The Gift of Vision
    • A Season of Renewal
    • The Resurrection Life
    • 4 Insights into Handling Life’s Thorns
    • Catching a Vision, Moving Forward, and Relishing Completion
    • 3 Reasons to Be Open and Aware of Those Around You
    • Writing Conferences and Life
    • 4 Ways to Ensure You Benefit from a Mountaintop Experience
    • 5 Ways to Avoid Becoming Hard-Hearted
    • Enhancing Effective Communication
    • 5 Ways to Dial Down Wide-Open
    • Restoration is Worth the Effort
    • Creativity Catalysts
    • Established Roots
    • Ignoring the Obvious
    • Slowdowns, Detours, and Alternate Routes
    • Venturing into Deep Water
    • 6 Benefits of Time Spent in Nature
    • Analyzing and Passing On Accurate Information
    • Dealing with Personal Trolls
    • Finding Identity
    • Recognizing and Controlling Destructive Habits
    • Moving Forward Following Life-Altering Events
    • Overcoming Negative Cheerleaders
    • Handling Seasons of Change
    • 5 Keys to Moving Beyond Rejection
    • Expectations, Dissatisfaction, and Moving Forward
    • 5 Strategies to Reboot Determination and Complete Goals
    • Knowing When to Change Course
    • Looking Back, Moving Forward
    • Guarding Against Deception
    • Building on Firm Foundations
    • Choosing a Positive Attitude
    • Getting a Grasp on Gratitude
    • Roll with It – Embracing Plan B
    • 4 Foundational Elements of Creativity
    • Handling Holiday Grief
    • Unlikely Birthplace, Ultimate Outcome
    • 10 Things to Consider Giving Up This Year
    • 3 Steps for 2020 Vision Enhancement
    • 3 Reasons to Adjust Your Perspective
    • Clearing the Clutter
    • Responding to Change
    • 5 Ways to Propel a Leap Forward
    • 6 Life Lessons from Tornadoes and Other Turbulence
    • Hang On and Move Forward
    • Appreciate Now
    • 4 Tools to Tame Fear
    • How to Survive When You’re Juggling Too Many Balls
    • 5 Reactions to Coronavirus
    • 5 Positives in This Current Crisis
    • 7 Ways to Move Forward While Sheltering in Place
    • 7 Keys to Staying Focused When Distractions Abound
    • Waiting for Calm After the Storm
    • New Learning in the Age of COVID-19
    • How to Take a Licking and Keep on Ticking
    • Clinging Vines and Other Entanglements
    • The Pitfalls of Isolation
    • What We are Learning about Ourselves in Light of COVID-19?
    • Remembrance, Sacrifice, and Freedom
    • Restoration – Moving Beyond Damage
    • 7 Enemies of Peace
    • 5 Life Lessons Learned from My Father
    • Vivid Impressions
    • The Positives and Negatives of Personal Independence
    • Discovering Hidden Treasure
    • Refresh, Renew, Reignite
    • Mining Memories for Positives
    • Handling Life’s Frustrations
    • Finding Peace During a Pandemic
    • Earthquakes and Other Disturbances
    • 5 Things that Hijack Our Lives
    • How to Approach Seasons of Waiting
    • Living in the Light
    • What Voices are You Listening To?
    • 5 Ways to Experience a Mini Escape
    • Finding Balance in Life’s Hard Things
    • Gaining Wisdom and Understanding
    • Closing a Life Chapter
    • Climbing Out of Life’s Ditches
    • Small Steps, Big Results
    • Experiencing Peace Amid Uncertainty
    • Adjusting and Adapting to Change
    • 5 Keys to Lasting Relationships
    • 5 Tips to Combat Discouragement
    • Giving Thanks Despite a Difficult Year
    • What Will You Do with the Last Month of 2020?
    • Light in the Darkness
    • Welcome to the Future
    • The Heart of Christmas
    • What 2020 Taught Us
    • Gaining Perspective on the New Year
    • A Structurally Sound Foundation
    • Living Life on the Edge of Uncertainty
    • Is Your Life Puzzle Missing a Piece?
    • Recognizing What Holds You Captive
    • The Hurting Heart
    • 5 Untruths We Believe About Ourselves
    • Moving Boldly Toward Your Hinterland
    • 7 Keys to Successful Relationships
    • Moving Through Difficult Circumstances
    • What is Holding You Back?
    • Maintaining Connections
    • When Finishing is Slow in Coming
    • The Peace Inspired by Nature
    • Responding to Life’s Little Annoyances
    • Writing a Book and Other Life Endeavors
    • Navigating Life Pauses
    • Waiting When Others Aren’t
    • 4 Reasons to Pause When the Message is Wait
    • Regaining Forward Motion Following a Challenging Life Season
    • The Emotions Inherent in Life Pauses
    • The Fine Art of Waiting
    • Thanksgiving Year-Round
    • Good Gifts
    • Make the Most of Today
    • Personal Freedom Thieves
    • Recognizing and Appreciating Blessings
    • 4 Keys to Resilience
    • Jump-Starting Motivation
    • Navigating Crossroads
    • Life in a Holding Pattern
    • Harnessing Hope
    • Responding to Pain
    • Promoting Personal Peace
    • Finding Peace and Positivity in Change
    • Relishing Relationships
    • When Life Hands You a Cluster of Difficulty
    • The Value of Roots
    • Seasonal Changes
    • Combating Anxiety
    • Maintaining Perspective and Reaching Out
    • Practicing Contentment
    • 4 Keys to Cultivating Kindness
    • Responding to a Life Pause
    • Life and Legacy
    • 4 Reasons to Risk Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
    • Thanksgiving – An Overlooked Attitude and Celebration
    • Grief at Christmas
    • Becoming Who You Were Created to Be
    • Follow the Light
    • The Joy of Christmas
    • Top 10 Tips for the New Year
    • New Year, Fresh Canvas
    • A Word for 2022
    • Snow’s Transforming Power
    • 5 Characteristics of True Winners
    • 7 Keys to Successfully Mastering Self-Discipline
    • Recipe for True Love
    • Seeing the World from a Childlike Perspective
    • How Do You Handle Your Hurts?
    • A March Season of Life
    • Finding a Major Key
    • Following and Fulfilling Your Dreams
    • The Gift of Spring
    • Life Beyond Training Wheels
    • When You Need a Break
    • And … Suddenly We Have a Problem
    • Birthday Reflections
    • Life Lessons from the T-Ball Field
    • The Value of Connections
    • Life Changes
    • Serving as a Caregiver
    • 5 Keys to Working Through Distractions
    • Expect Good
    • The Gift of Community
    • 5 Keys to Juggling Multiple Stressors
    • Post-Surgery Reflections
    • Healing
    • Cherishing Personal Independence
    • 5 Keys to Navigating Clusters of Difficulty
    • On Waiting Well
    • Vigil
    • Support for the Grieving
    • The Multiple Facets of Grief
    • Mining Dreams for Insights
    • Finding Peace
    • Lessons Gleaned from Old Photos
    • The Power of Example
    • Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish
    • 6 Secrets to Personal Success
    • Welcome Fall
    • Consequences Matter
    • The Power of Encouragement
    • 3 Keys to Emotional Healing
    • Slow Life Seasons
    • What We See and What We Perceive
    • An Empty Seat at the Table
    • Year-Round Thankfulness
    • 5 Ways to Find Peace Amid the Hectic Holiday Hustle
    • Uncovering Blessings in Hard Things
    • Holiday Hospitality
    • Take Time
    • 5 Positive Steps for the New Year
    • What Will You Do with 2023?
    • Pilgrimage
    • Tears in a Bottle
    • Walls
    • The Benefits of Looking Up
    • Reflections
    • Releasing and Moving Forward
    • What’s Old Becomes New
    • Anchor Roots
    • Melody of the Heart
    • The Power of Your Story
    • Overlapping Seasons
  • Speaking
  • Editing & Critique
  • Books
  • Forward Motion Blog – Main Page
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  • Contact
  • Blog Posts
    • 5 Benefits of Seniority
    • 5 Reasons to Reconnect with Friends from Your Past
    • 3 Keys to Navigating Seasons of Personal Change
    • Uncovering 7 Areas of Hidden Personal Clutter
    • 4 Ways to Move Beyond Criticism
    • 3 Keys to Successful Forward Motion
    • 5 Misconceptions about Forgiveness
    • 3 Reasons Expectations Color Reality
    • 5 Life Directives Inspired by Rain
    • 4 Reasons to Count Your Blessings
    • 5 Tips for Navigating Difficult Seasons of Life
    • 3 Reasons to Encourage New Growth
    • 5 Life Lessons from Snow
    • 4 Obstacles to Receiving
    • 6 Keys to Maintaining Joy in the New Year
    • 6 Ways to Experience Peace and Fulfillment in the New Year
    • Life in the Rearview Mirror
    • Cultivating Wisdom
    • Navigating Beyond Damage
    • 4 Ways to Guard Integrity
    • 3 Reasons to Encourage Others
    • 5 Thieves of Contentment
    • Uncovering Deterrents to Beginning
    • 7 Obstacles to Moving Forward
    • 4 Reasons to Pursue Hospitality
    • 5 Ways to Discover Your Gifts and Talents
    • When Looking Back is a Catalyst for Moving Forward
    • 4 Reasons to Finish What You Start
    • Components of Love
    • The Gift of Vision
    • A Season of Renewal
    • The Resurrection Life
    • 4 Insights into Handling Life’s Thorns
    • Catching a Vision, Moving Forward, and Relishing Completion
    • 3 Reasons to Be Open and Aware of Those Around You
    • Writing Conferences and Life
    • 4 Ways to Ensure You Benefit from a Mountaintop Experience
    • 5 Ways to Avoid Becoming Hard-Hearted
    • Enhancing Effective Communication
    • 5 Ways to Dial Down Wide-Open
    • Restoration is Worth the Effort
    • Creativity Catalysts
    • Established Roots
    • Ignoring the Obvious
    • Slowdowns, Detours, and Alternate Routes
    • Venturing into Deep Water
    • 6 Benefits of Time Spent in Nature
    • Analyzing and Passing On Accurate Information
    • Dealing with Personal Trolls
    • Finding Identity
    • Recognizing and Controlling Destructive Habits
    • Moving Forward Following Life-Altering Events
    • Overcoming Negative Cheerleaders
    • Handling Seasons of Change
    • 5 Keys to Moving Beyond Rejection
    • Expectations, Dissatisfaction, and Moving Forward
    • 5 Strategies to Reboot Determination and Complete Goals
    • Knowing When to Change Course
    • Looking Back, Moving Forward
    • Guarding Against Deception
    • Building on Firm Foundations
    • Choosing a Positive Attitude
    • Getting a Grasp on Gratitude
    • Roll with It – Embracing Plan B
    • 4 Foundational Elements of Creativity
    • Handling Holiday Grief
    • Unlikely Birthplace, Ultimate Outcome
    • 10 Things to Consider Giving Up This Year
    • 3 Steps for 2020 Vision Enhancement
    • 3 Reasons to Adjust Your Perspective
    • Clearing the Clutter
    • Responding to Change
    • 5 Ways to Propel a Leap Forward
    • 6 Life Lessons from Tornadoes and Other Turbulence
    • Hang On and Move Forward
    • Appreciate Now
    • 4 Tools to Tame Fear
    • How to Survive When You’re Juggling Too Many Balls
    • 5 Reactions to Coronavirus
    • 5 Positives in This Current Crisis
    • 7 Ways to Move Forward While Sheltering in Place
    • 7 Keys to Staying Focused When Distractions Abound
    • Waiting for Calm After the Storm
    • New Learning in the Age of COVID-19
    • How to Take a Licking and Keep on Ticking
    • Clinging Vines and Other Entanglements
    • The Pitfalls of Isolation
    • What We are Learning about Ourselves in Light of COVID-19?
    • Remembrance, Sacrifice, and Freedom
    • Restoration – Moving Beyond Damage
    • 7 Enemies of Peace
    • 5 Life Lessons Learned from My Father
    • Vivid Impressions
    • The Positives and Negatives of Personal Independence
    • Discovering Hidden Treasure
    • Refresh, Renew, Reignite
    • Mining Memories for Positives
    • Handling Life’s Frustrations
    • Finding Peace During a Pandemic
    • Earthquakes and Other Disturbances
    • 5 Things that Hijack Our Lives
    • How to Approach Seasons of Waiting
    • Living in the Light
    • What Voices are You Listening To?
    • 5 Ways to Experience a Mini Escape
    • Finding Balance in Life’s Hard Things
    • Gaining Wisdom and Understanding
    • Closing a Life Chapter
    • Climbing Out of Life’s Ditches
    • Small Steps, Big Results
    • Experiencing Peace Amid Uncertainty
    • Adjusting and Adapting to Change
    • 5 Keys to Lasting Relationships
    • 5 Tips to Combat Discouragement
    • Giving Thanks Despite a Difficult Year
    • What Will You Do with the Last Month of 2020?
    • Light in the Darkness
    • Welcome to the Future
    • The Heart of Christmas
    • What 2020 Taught Us
    • Gaining Perspective on the New Year
    • A Structurally Sound Foundation
    • Living Life on the Edge of Uncertainty
    • Is Your Life Puzzle Missing a Piece?
    • Recognizing What Holds You Captive
    • The Hurting Heart
    • 5 Untruths We Believe About Ourselves
    • Moving Boldly Toward Your Hinterland
    • 7 Keys to Successful Relationships
    • Moving Through Difficult Circumstances
    • What is Holding You Back?
    • Maintaining Connections
    • When Finishing is Slow in Coming
    • The Peace Inspired by Nature
    • Responding to Life’s Little Annoyances
    • Writing a Book and Other Life Endeavors
    • Navigating Life Pauses
    • Waiting When Others Aren’t
    • 4 Reasons to Pause When the Message is Wait
    • Regaining Forward Motion Following a Challenging Life Season
    • The Emotions Inherent in Life Pauses
    • The Fine Art of Waiting
    • Thanksgiving Year-Round
    • Good Gifts
    • Make the Most of Today
    • Personal Freedom Thieves
    • Recognizing and Appreciating Blessings
    • 4 Keys to Resilience
    • Jump-Starting Motivation
    • Navigating Crossroads
    • Life in a Holding Pattern
    • Harnessing Hope
    • Responding to Pain
    • Promoting Personal Peace
    • Finding Peace and Positivity in Change
    • Relishing Relationships
    • When Life Hands You a Cluster of Difficulty
    • The Value of Roots
    • Seasonal Changes
    • Combating Anxiety
    • Maintaining Perspective and Reaching Out
    • Practicing Contentment
    • 4 Keys to Cultivating Kindness
    • Responding to a Life Pause
    • Life and Legacy
    • 4 Reasons to Risk Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
    • Thanksgiving – An Overlooked Attitude and Celebration
    • Grief at Christmas
    • Becoming Who You Were Created to Be
    • Follow the Light
    • The Joy of Christmas
    • Top 10 Tips for the New Year
    • New Year, Fresh Canvas
    • A Word for 2022
    • Snow’s Transforming Power
    • 5 Characteristics of True Winners
    • 7 Keys to Successfully Mastering Self-Discipline
    • Recipe for True Love
    • Seeing the World from a Childlike Perspective
    • How Do You Handle Your Hurts?
    • A March Season of Life
    • Finding a Major Key
    • Following and Fulfilling Your Dreams
    • The Gift of Spring
    • Life Beyond Training Wheels
    • When You Need a Break
    • And … Suddenly We Have a Problem
    • Birthday Reflections
    • Life Lessons from the T-Ball Field
    • The Value of Connections
    • Life Changes
    • Serving as a Caregiver
    • 5 Keys to Working Through Distractions
    • Expect Good
    • The Gift of Community
    • 5 Keys to Juggling Multiple Stressors
    • Post-Surgery Reflections
    • Healing
    • Cherishing Personal Independence
    • 5 Keys to Navigating Clusters of Difficulty
    • On Waiting Well
    • Vigil
    • Support for the Grieving
    • The Multiple Facets of Grief
    • Mining Dreams for Insights
    • Finding Peace
    • Lessons Gleaned from Old Photos
    • The Power of Example
    • Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish
    • 6 Secrets to Personal Success
    • Welcome Fall
    • Consequences Matter
    • The Power of Encouragement
    • 3 Keys to Emotional Healing
    • Slow Life Seasons
    • What We See and What We Perceive
    • An Empty Seat at the Table
    • Year-Round Thankfulness
    • 5 Ways to Find Peace Amid the Hectic Holiday Hustle
    • Uncovering Blessings in Hard Things
    • Holiday Hospitality
    • Take Time
    • 5 Positive Steps for the New Year
    • What Will You Do with 2023?
    • Pilgrimage
    • Tears in a Bottle
    • Walls
    • The Benefits of Looking Up
    • Reflections
    • Releasing and Moving Forward
    • What’s Old Becomes New
    • Anchor Roots
    • Melody of the Heart
    • The Power of Your Story
    • Overlapping Seasons
  • Speaking
  • Editing & Critique
  • Books
  • Forward Motion Blog – Main Page

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5 Ways Relationships are Like an Old Swimming Pool

September 5, 2018 2 Comments

I’m blessed to still own the home where I grew up. In the backyard, is a 51-year-old gunite swimming pool, a rarity in today’s world of vinyl liners. The pool has been the source of great joy and relaxation over the years. I have childhood memories of swimming at night with my parents, back when […]

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